After reading many of the back n forth posts between everyone, it seem's it's looping into a endless circle. Hopefully this will bring some peace to some people, or even change some minds.
1. Now to start off with the most seen complaint of "The donor store having nex sets/ spirit shields = ruins the Eco / P2W / Un-fair / Made many players quit ".
Alright, has anyone who has complained about this actually asked themselves, "How many top servers have OP gear for sale in their online donor stores / in-game donor stores? ". Well I'll give you the answer, it's the majority of successful servers. I feel the store is underwhelming still, but instead of removing items there should be lower tier items added, like Bandos, Armadyl & Barrows. The Store should remain setup for a larger player base and added onto, because when the cash flow options are rejuvenated the Eco will be able to flow more fluently.
Onto the point that many players quit because of buy-able Nex, in my experience most of the people i have seen leave for awhile / flat out quit were for other reasons. Many of the reasons have been stated by players, such as Lack of updates, Lack of bug-fixing, and a lack to bring GP into the economy at a steady pace. Anyone that has quit because of the simple / common fact that OP gear is buy-able, isn't of much concern to any server in my opinion.
2. The next point i wont like to shed some of my light on, is "The Poor/Rich Gap will cripple the server if released without eco reset"
Every single server that i have played, there has been a wide poor/rich gap at some point if not a majority of many server's existences. There is always going to be stakers, gamblers & donors who have the power to change the gap Immensely without time. Resetting the Eco will only delay the inevitable, of the fact that eventually someone will own a majority of all high-value items. Now a quick thought, if people donated this much for nex / spirit shields and the eco is reset but they get their tokens back, what will they do? Most likely they will either quit & charge-back, or spend the points on cosmetics and stake till cleaned. As for the new players coming in, that would visit the store to only find cosmetics, no way to buy an advantage to PvM, would most likely move to another server. As i stated above, many of the top successful server's donor shops are set up for quick buy-able gear to PvM with Cosmetics / supplies also. So in all, the "Poor/Rich Gap" isn't relevant in any aspect towards making a decision on the poll.
Tdlr; Taking out P2W = bad, Rich/poor gap = irrelevant, in my opinion